No one can tell you that you’re wrong. Be kind and gentlemanly to women, even if you’ve decided that dating isn’t for you at the moment.

It may be difficult, but when you find yourself getting hung up on those same negative thoughts about girls or a girl, remind yourself that it’s just not worth it.

Give it time. When you experience heartbreak, the only thing that can really make it better is time. [2] X Research source

Singles are now a majority in the U. S. Just over fifty percent of Americans are now single. [5] X Research source

Singlehood can be great for your career. [7] X Research source When you are single, you can spend much more time being creative and exploring your passions.

Join a gym. Spend the time in the evening that used to be consumed with romance to jog, swim, or work out.

As a single person, you are more likely to have close friends, and to keep in close contact with your siblings. [9] X Research source Not having a romantic life means you have plenty of time for having fun and bonding with your platonic relationships- and this can fulfill the same needs as a love interest. [10] X Research source

When you take on the journey of abstaining from a romantic love, you have an opportunity to enter into a realm of possibility, adventure, and sheer fun- a realm of focusing on what’s best for you. Make the most of it- you never know when that certain someone will stumble into your life, and you’ll find it rather difficult to maintain your vow of giving up on girls.